To everyone my age and up, it seems as if life ends when you've discovered that every 'single' one of their friends has a significant (or insignificant, just for show) other. Even the virgins; not a big surprise. Or maybe that's a little dramatic; life has ended for them in their minds, it has just come to a screeching halt. This knowledge has stopped them usually in a important part of their life. Like, say for instance you have just started college, or maybe you just graduated; woke up and even though they should be euphoric that they have accomplished something not a lot of people do, they fall back on thinking that they are really just failures. Maybe, they ponder, it's because they have focused so hard on doing what they had to do, that they simply forgot about the actual living part of their lives. Now, this makes them even more convinced that they are in fact, failures, because they realize that some, or most of their friends have been doing the same thing as them. So, why haven't they been able to 'multi-task' like their 'relationship-enriched' friends have? So, they are failures in their mind for a time. Up until they get out of their guilt tides, they might realize that it is not too late. They start dressing more 'appropriately', start noticing people around their neighborhood, job, school, or even the health department (is that only wrong to me?) ; people they've never noticed in that way before. Do yourself a favor, and I know you probably feel as if you need to snag someone quick, but don't settle for just anyone; it shows you have no respect for yourself, getting someone you can snag a little too quickly. I look at it this way, if you needed someone on your arm (or theirs) years ago, you would have had them. Truth is no one really can be alone. If anyone tells you this is a lie, than they must can't stand people, or they just love arguing. Everyone needs a friend, acquaintance, lover, or hubby. It was not God's intention for us to be alone in this world, so calm down, and wait for your 'turn' in the love boat. Now, I will not be a hypocrite and say I don't have any problems in the relationship department, because I do. I just don't have a problem catching any fish; I have a problem holding onto the fish. In reality, no joke, it actually is very hard (and dangerous) to try and hold onto a fish. Those evil little hidden razors on their slippery bodies don't really attract me. What attracts me to them is the fact that it is fun catching them. Here's a thought: Does it say something about me that I always want to return the fish, in question, back into the lake it has come from? I sure hope not, because even though I am emotional enough to feel for the fish, and let it go; I always 'cry' because I don't really want to give it up. Fish=my relationship patterns. Ummmm, I always just slip away like a fish; leaving the 'insane' guy that picked me out, in the first place, a couple of tears along the way. Going back to the topic at hand, your life will not end at this time, well not physically, if you do not have someone on your arm (or yours on theirs). This is a fact, and maybe I should make a separate list for my personal facts. If anyone of my friends made the statement "You are a dating machine"; I would completely agree with them, and also give back the statement, "At least I am not a baby machine, yet". They would laugh, and I would still be feeling bad about what they are really saying (in my head); I can not hold onto a guy, I mean, it's either that or they are calling me a you-know-what. My friends love me more than that though (the few true I do have). My point in that little thingy is that do not become so desperate that you fly through dozens of relationships in a year. It does nothing but confuse you, add to the pressure of meeting a 'good' one, and increase the number of relationships you are likely to have next year (THIS IS NOT A GOOD THING!). Let things just flow, and don't wait around for someone if you know that deep down you don't even like or trust them. Trust. I don't believe in it, well, in this period of my life. The only one I'll ever truly trust is God, and I don't even need to meet the 'guy'. I am going to get off this subject, because I unknowingly trust everyone I meet (so my mother tells me, and my mother tells me a lot by the way). Anyway, life has just started to get good, and in my opinion why waste your time being restricted to a relationship that probably won't last long enough to meet the parents? You know how it is if you have a child. You can't go clubbing because the baby is sick, or you don't have a babysitter, or you can't go get a tattoo or piercing because you don't want to be a bad influence on your child. If someone does this either way it goes, bad influence or sick baby, they are horrible parents, and their children should be raised by some strange family, who already has 6 other adopted midgets. If you don't know already that is just one of my many untasteful jokes. I actually don't believe that makes you a bad parent, just a little unconventional. Also, I refer to children as 'midgets', because I think it's a cute 'little' nickname to characterize them all by, and also because I think too many people are sensitive to words like 'gay', or 'retarded'. They really are; it is just slang, a shorter way of saying certain things. So, in my opinion sensitive people shouldn't be too offended, because I certainly don't mean it in a bad way. Anyway, (I got off the point again; sorry:) why be held back if you don't have to be? You are basically just losing the youthful years of your life! Think about it; it won't look right if your 76, and stripping at a club (for fun) for the first time.
Peace out all the thoughtful people in the world
Pisces rule,
Num12
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